How is that?
Feminine is imaginative(about dreamboy). But feminine behaves both as 'superlative(why no purusha sees her?)' and 'comparative(seggregating grain-men from husk-rowdies)' manner. Hence I suggest all men by making to behave with feminine in same both 'superlative(why no girl sees him?)' and 'comparative(seggregating women of substance from antisocial women)' manner.