Because if fear by force has lost its power of fear,then fear by force becomes temporary. WHereas if same fear is applied again and again without force by applying graceful(patience) mind,then other/s will make themselves as responsible about that fear. That graceful-fear will be permanent in other/s. CATCH THIEF.TELL HIM/HER ABOUT NEED FOR SECURE(asking to give/listen) TRANSACTION. AND GIVE SECURITY KEY TO THAT THIEF. THEN UNACCOUNTABILITY VANISHES BY ITSELF without any need for renunciation and pessimism. Materialism is true renunciation and optimism "if made accountable and needy". There is lot of difference between cup and lip so that those who make instructing as profession prevail as unruly "if they are not doing what they are saying when asked adversely" by ignoring that they are saying what they are not doing when asked adversely. TEACHING GOODNESS REQUIRES ENROLLMENT BY GIVING NAME IN VOICE towards legal binding among social other/s "discrete question/s as to why for what by how at where" both instructor for goodness and questioner for goodness stay in society without exposure.

ఒక సారి కొట్టి భయపెట్టి చెప్పటము కన్నా పది సార్లు ఓర్పుతో (కరుణతో ) చెప్పటము వలన "ఆ చెప్పటము వలన ఆశించే మార్పు శాశ్వతము "అవుతుంది .