SAYING NEGATIVE TO OTHER/S NEGATIVE IS POSITIVE TO PREVAIL NEGATIVE FOR SOLVING OTHER/S NEGATIVITY.

An young person conducting as adult person in social is awkward as 7. An young person should select young roles in scripts to be GOOD VOICE(heart of heart) at first and GOOD HEART(voice of voice) at next. After becoming adult at 45 yrs age,one should select adult roles in scripts. DHANUSH IS THE BEST EXAMPLE TO SELECT YOUNG ROLES FOR GOOD VOICE(heart of heart) at first and GOOD HEART(voice of voice) at next. 

One can't be good at first. One can be good at next. It is the principle of secularism. SECULARISM DOESN'T MEAN NO RESPECT FOR RELIGIONS. SECULARISM MEANS EQUAL RESPECT FOR RELIGIONS. 

Legal:Don't demand dowry. Moral-psychological:As dowry is given on demand at first,demand for ADDITIONAL dowry is natural at next. Demand for ADDITIONAL dowry can be satisfied by INCLUDING HEART(VOICE OF VOICE) as dividing dowry into two parts to be given at first and next.  

Brahminical HEART(6000 caste mindsets) can be good only at next. Buddhist VOICE(8 fold path) is good at first.