Being widow of social-being-professional or being one of three wives of social-being-professional is better than being widow of professional-being-social or one of two wives of social-being-professional. Squint-eye is better than blind-eye. Slow-and-steady motor vehicle ride on city/highway roads is better than being static or social-criminally-high speed motor vehicle ride on city/highway roads.

 A work which is to be changed need undergo two processes.
1.thought(word) acceptance.
2.hand(mind) work.